While cheating is one of the worst things you can do to your partner, one woman has confessed she ‘can’t stop’ and has cheated on eight of her serious partners, including her fiance – all with the same man. Even though she feels guilty for doing it, Danielle said her husband-to-be has no idea that she keeps going back to her ‘first love’.
But the self confessed “genuine” and “soft and sweet” bride said her first love is the only man she’s never been unfaithful to, and said she feels like cheating is the only way she can ‘protect’ her relationship with her fiance who she met in 2023. But she knows the saying ‘once a cheat, always a cheat’ rings true, as it’s something she can’t stop doing.
It first started when she was unfaithful to her university boyfriend, who she had been dating for two months. When he’d gone away for the weekend, she said her ex asked her to meet him at the pub and admitted she was “still hung up” on him so went along and ended up having sex with him. The pair vowed to never tell anyone.
She said she thinks she enjoys the thrill of doing something bad and “getting away with it”. For the duration of the two-year-long relationship with her university boyfriend, she’d have sex with her ex once a week, and also started sleeping with her housemate. To Danielle, it became easy to give into the desire for sex.
Danielle admits to having a high sex drive, and would sneak off when her boyfriend was asleep to have sex with her housemate, and then get back into bed with her boyfriend. But she said often her cheating begins after an argument. She told Metro: “I’m reactive, and when someone hurts me, I want to hurt them back.”
It’s the same with her fiance who she met at a party. When they initially met, she vowed she wouldn’t be unfaithful to him, and he knew about her past but “not the full extent’. However, after an argument one day she claimed he’d called her a s**g, so joined a dating website called Illicit Encounters.
Two days after joining the site, she had sex with a married man “in the back of his wife’s Range Rover” in a pub car park. She then started getting into the habit of sleeping with other men and admitted she enjoys the “thrill of cheating”. She has never confessed this to her fiance as she doesn’t want to “see anyone hurt” she said she feels bad for the “wives and girlfriends” of the men she has sex with.
Danielle also thinks her secret sex habits would “come as a surprise” to those who know her, and said she doesn’t think people would think she does it, but to keep up with her double life she has to take some careful precautions to not get caught. Everything on Danielle’s phone is password-protected and hidden in folders, and she doesn’t share her location with her partner.
“I’ve only been found out twice. One boyfriend had a friend follow me when I was with another man. And my most recent ex found out when I became pregnant – he was out of the country when I conceived. I had a miscarriage and left him month later.” But while she sometimes feels guilty on her fiance, she won’t stop doing it as it’s protecting her relationship.
“I really do love my fiancé, but I’m getting married because it’s something he really wants. I’ve never wanted to tie the knot, but it’s important to him. If someone else was telling me they did what I do, I’d think ‘God, you’re awful’. But I think it takes a very brave person to be with someone forever and not cheat. I’ve seen those relationships become sexless and unhappy, and I don’t want that for myself. So, I’ll continue to cheat.”
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